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From Jonathan Field's Horsemanship Blog: This is my kind of Classroom!
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"...The Nanaimo Ladysmith School District has received approval from the B.C Ministry of Education to start a new High School course entitled “Introduction to Horsemanship” It’s a class where students learn the basics of horsemanship and earn 4 high school credits in the process..." Posted Oct 6, 2011
I was looking forward to experiencing "The Mane Event" and curious to see how the relational pedagogy would reveal itself. My biggest surprise was how MOVING it was. At least 4 times, my eyes brimmed with tears (like right now...) as I witnessed this beautiful animal, so sleek and strong, desire to be 'with' the trainer. This connection-in-action was a privilege to witness. Consistent across the three events we watched, was the evident respect, trust and consent. Each displayed the foundation of the connection and then, once the connection was open, the leader became the trusted leader, and did not deviate from that position. The horse wasn't trying to avoid pain, but trying to do as the trainer wished, so that the horse could remain in connection with the trainer. It was this willingness, this humble willingness, to connect that allowed the equation to play out. Strength under control, both the horse's and the trainer's, grants unlimited possibilities to occur. This partnership is a beautiful adventure.
The allegory of horse and trainer apply quite directly to instruction. Especially instruction done well. The lack of verbal understanding between horse and trainer is also similar in my work in the Early Years. The Family Support piece wraps around the parent as they are doing the best they can in raising their newborn or preschooler. The parent mirrors the trainer and the child the horse. The horse cannot lie and neither can the child. The child will give many signs, as does the horse, for the parent to interpret. We encourage the parent to 'attune' to their child, so that their child will 'attach' to them. The child is born wired for this relationship to unfold this way.
The parallels between the horse and trainer apply in any instruction situation. It is not an equal-power relationship, but both parties can be powerful. It is the willingness and trust of the learner that permits the instructor to be the leader. After that, the leader needs to remain true to the degree of respect they initially gave to the one being taught. To waffle from that place, will damage the relationship and any learning that may follow.
What I experienced at the Mane Event will stay with me a very long time. I found a horse calendar at one of the vendors and will see it all of 2012, a great reminder of the power of developing a connection and gaining leadership. This event has also stirred in me the unbridled need for connection in my personal relationships and the rawness experienced when difficult breaks occur.